Chief (Sir) Jerome Udoji was born on July 17, 1917 in Ozubulu, Anambra State. He was educated at St Michael's Catholic School, Ozubulu and St Charles Teacher's Training Institute, Onitsha, and then at Cambridge University, England, between 1945-48 where he studied law. Udoji was called to the English Bar at Gray's Inn, England.

Tribal marks, also known as scarification, are a traditional practice in Nigeria, where specific patterns are etched into the skin to signify identity, heritage, and social status. These marks vary among Nigeria’s diverse ethnic groups, each with its unique styles and meanings.

ORIGINS AND PURPOSE:

Tribal marks date back centuries and were primarily used as a means of identification. In pre-colonial times, they helped distinguish one ethnic group, clan, or lineage from another. For instance, during wars or slave raids, tribal marks helped to reunite displaced individuals with their families. They also served aesthetic purposes, symbolized bravery, and marked rites of passage into adulthood.

We often find ourselves trying to accomplish something important to us, but to do so, we have to cooperate with others. These "others" may include people we don't get along with, like, or trust, which can make it feel impossible to work together – almost like collaborating with the enemy. Adam Kahone's "Collaborating With The Enemy" is a guide for handling challenging conversations and making progress even with those we strongly disagree with.

By Amina Al-Harbi (social consultant)

Stubborn women fail in their marriages, and even in their relationships with relatives.

Women who lack emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing with people around them, are the biggest failures in their marriages and their lives. Why?

By Jonathan Briggs

The book "How to Be a Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy" by Jonathan Briggs is a modern take on the classic concept of gentlemanliness. In this book, Briggs provides practical advice and guidance on how to embody the qualities of a gentleman in today's society. Here's a summary of the key points covered in the book:

(An Advice To Men)

Do you know why your children will disobey you. even when they are still tender and living under your roof ?

Being too friendly invites a lot of disrespect. This statement, at first glance, may seem harsh or counterintuitive, especially when we are often taught that kindness and friendliness are virtues that foster positive relationships. And while that’s true, there’s a fine line between being genuinely kind and allowing others to take advantage of that kindness. When you're too friendly, especially without setting boundaries, you may unknowingly open the door for others to treat you with disrespect.

By Kemi Shogunle

This book is a self-help book that aims to empower women to recognize their worth and live authentically.

By Uzor Maxim Uzoatu

The recent announcement of the proposed adaptation of Chinua Achebe’s classic novel Things Fall Apart as a global television series with the iconic actor, Idris Elba, starring as Okonkwo has animated the cultural firmament of the world. David Oyelowo’s Studio A24 will serve as producers of the TV series in partnership with Achebe Masterworks.

By Gregory Hartley and Maryann Karinch

10 practical lessons from "Get People to Do What You Want: How to Use Body Language and Words for Maximum Effect":

1. Read Body Language: Understand nonverbal cues like posture, facial expressions, and gestures. People often communicate more with their bodies than their words.

2. Master Your Body Language: Be mindful of your own posture, facial expressions, and eye contact. Project confidence, openness, and trustworthiness through nonverbal communication.

3. Mirror and Match: Subtly mimic the other person's body language to build rapport and create a sense of connection.

4. Active Listening is Key: Pay close attention to what the other person is saying, both verbally and nonverbally. Ask clarifying questions and show genuine interest to build trust.

5. Speak Clearly and Confidently: Use a confident tone of voice, avoid filler words like "um" and "ah," and enunciate clearly to command attention.

6. The Power of Storytelling: Weave stories and anecdotes into your communication to make your message more memorable and engaging.

7. Frame Your Requests Effectively: Learn how to phrase your requests in a way that is more likely to be met with a positive response. Focus on benefits and mutual gain.

8. Harness the Power of Silence: Don't be afraid to use strategic pauses in conversation. This can create anticipation and allow the other person to reflect on what you've said.

9. Read People's Instincts: Develop your ability to pick up on subtle cues that reveal a person's underlying trust or mistrust. Be Authentic: While these techniques can be helpful, don't resort to manipulation. The most effective communication is built on authenticity and genuine connection. NNL.

Dr Tony Onyima

In an era where information flows freely, often at a rapid pace, the role of an editor has never been more crucial.

By Sophie Hannah

In "How to Hold a Grudge: From Resentment to Contentment - The Power of Grudges to Transform Your Life," Sophie Hannah presents a thought-provoking exploration of grudges and their potential benefits.